Some of them come from a natural healing/quantum physics perspective and though proven to be powerful and effective, you may find them surprising and even controversial. You don’t have to actually believe them, just be willing to, and then open up to watch them begin to work. It’s the willingness that cracks open the darkness and lets in the light, so tell yourself right now: “Whatever this is, if it will help save me physically and financially, I am willing to believe it, and if I can’t fully, it’s okay. I’m staying open.”
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Monday, March 2, 2020
Corona Virus--Can Forgiveness, Positive Thoughts and Actions Help You Stay Well?
Some of them come from a natural healing/quantum physics perspective and though proven to be powerful and effective, you may find them surprising and even controversial. You don’t have to actually believe them, just be willing to, and then open up to watch them begin to work. It’s the willingness that cracks open the darkness and lets in the light, so tell yourself right now: “Whatever this is, if it will help save me physically and financially, I am willing to believe it, and if I can’t fully, it’s okay. I’m staying open.”
Wednesday, April 1, 2015
I See You
"All minds are joined, and I see not a stranger before me, but one who walks as I walk, who feels as I feel, who longs as I long, who is humbled as I am humbled, who prays for peace as I have prayed.
Therefore I will give them what they seek. And in that giving, I receive it." Way of Mastery p. 122
This is how forgiveness begins. It occurs in the moment when we see others as being the same as ourselves.
All minds are joined and therefore, in many ways, they are, actually, us.
I found myself contemplating the line from the quote above, "therefore I will give them what they seek". Just what do they seek? Well, just as I do, everyone ultimately seeks love. Everyone longs to be loved, to feel love and to give love in return. It's our basic nature. Love is what we are and we all seek to return to it.
What makes us feel loved? Being loved is being recognized. We feel loved when others acknowledge our existence, our worth, our truth. When others accept and acknowledge us, we feel valued. We all simply want to be seen.
In the movie Avatar, I love the way they say hello to each other. They stop and face each other and look directly into one another's eyes, "I see you."
I see you, is what it's all about. Seeing and accepting the existence of another human being is the act of extending love. Forgiveness happens in this moment. The miracle happens in this moment. When we shift our thinking from fear to love, from confusion and opposition to acknowledgement, forgiveness happens.
We are simply knowing the truth, that ultimately we are all the same, despite the crazy things we all do here, despite the crazy dreams we follow in this insane 3D world we call earth. At our core, in our joined minds, we are all, each and every one of us, simply love.
"Forgiveness is an act through which you learn what Love is, that carries you into a transcendence of the world. Sharing only loving thoughts, supportive thoughts -- as you look gently upon the Christ in another is a way that takes you into the transcendence of the world. Looking upon all things of this world and seeing their perfect harmlessness, their lack of ability to constrain you or harm you or imprison you, is a way that takes you beyond the world." --Way of Mastery p. 127-8
Tuesday, March 17, 2015
The Past is Over
Forgiveness releases you from the past. When you meditate on forgiveness, you learn that, in fact, there is no past in the MIND of God. In other words, your past is never held against you unless you make it so. Guilt is a choice and so is forgiveness. When you choose guilt, you bury your gifts, you live in fear, and everyone misses what you could offer. When you choose forgiveness, everyone can win.
How do you know if you are holding on to your past? You are unhappy! When you are struggling, ask yourself, What am I holding on to from the past? What old thought, old block, or old fear are you still clinging to?Holden encourages us to ask ourselves these important questions:
I am afraid of _______because in the past I _____________.
I have given up on ___________because in the past I ____________.
I am depressed now because in the past I ______________.
What are some of the areas in your life where you feel unhappy or unproductive, stymied, thwarted, victimized or stuck in lack? Spend some time pondering those areas with these questions in mind. Watch what comes up. Then let it go. It's the past. It has nothing to do with the you of today. It's holding you back in unhappiness. It's nothing you need. Guilt is nothing you need. Rejection is nothing you need. Lack is nothing you need. Let it go. Know it, feel it, love it and gently let it go.
One way to let these things go is to imagine that the Holy Spirit (your soul, your higher self) has given you a beautiful white light altar and it is right in front of you. This gorgeous marble light altar transforms everything upon it into pure love. It's the love altar.
When these memories and emotions from the past come up, spend a few moments with them, intensify them and experiencing them all over again. Then gently and lovingly ask them to place themselves on the altar. Let them be released, transformed and swept away out of your life forever. Let go. Forgiving is the act of letting love replace fear. It is that point when the miracle appears.
Holden suggests that we can then affirm "The past is over" and "Now is new". He says, "The moment you let go of your past, you stop projecting it on to the present.
His final paragraph in the section is this:
To let go of your past, do these three things. First, be willing to forgive yourself for every mistake you think you ever made. Affirm "The past is over," and let forgiveness wipe away all tears. Second, if you want to be free of your past mistakes, free everyone from theirs. In other words, forgive everyone. Third, pray, "Dear God, I'm back!" Now let yourself be innocent again, free again, and ready again to say "Yes" to new healing, new happiness and a new futures.
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
We all want the same thing...
Recognize all whom you see as brothers, because only equals are at peace. --A Course in Miracles
Power struggles happen because we think we are both separate and different from each other. We forget that we are both made of the same love and that we both share the same basic interest, which is to love and to be loved. --Robert Holden
We are both made of the same love.
Every one of comes from the same source.
We are all made in the same image.
Love is what we are.
And we all want the same thing here on earth. We want to know that love. We want to experience the truth of ourselves. It's sometimes hard to remember that truth here. There are so many blocks to it. And, of course, we've created them all ourselves.
But all we really want is know love, be love, receive love and give love. Every action we take, every thought we think, it all boils down to one basic desire, and that is to know love again.
When you see someone behaving badly, just know that he is blocked from understanding and seeing his truth. His motivation comes from the desire to be loved. He is simply confused about how to actually achieve that. He can't see it.
Give him the love he needs in the form of your forgiveness.
Sunday, January 25, 2015
Judging Other People's "Conditions"
What that means is that, we have created "opinions" and "beliefs" in our mind which are the conditions. Our conditions are not necessarily someone elses conditions. And yet, we look at others and judge them by our conditions.
We all have free will. We are free to decide which experiences we want to have and which ones we don't want.
If we look at our lives here like a trip to Disneyland we can see that not everyone wants to ride on Space Mountain. It's too fast for some people. Some people just want to do the River Boat Cruise. They like slow. They want to take their time and enjoy the sunshine. It's dark in Space Mountain and the lights flash by in a jarring way. On the River Boat Cruise you can listen to the sounds of birds in the trees. You can watch the patterns the boat makes in the water as it passes through.
Who's right? Is it the guy that likes fast, dark and scary Space Mountain or is it the one who prefers sunny, slow and peaceful River boating?
Of course, there's no right and wrong here. We all get to choose our own adventure. That's why we're here. We choose an adventure and we learn some things along the way. Our pathway and our learning is our pathway alone and no one elses. We're all heading toward the same ultimate place, but how we get there is determined by each of us individually with our own free will.
Let's not judge anyone else's choices. If they want to be the loud one, or the hairy one or the stubborn one, or the beautiful one or the deep thinking one, just let them be. They never agreed to be a part of the group that thinks that beauty is important. They never agreed to be a part of the group that loves to fight, or the group that likes living in the desert, or the group that wants to save the rain forest, or the group that thinks tattoos are cool. Those aren't the conditions they adhere to.
They are learning just as we are. Let's not judge what they choose to learn or how, where and when they do it.
What can we possibly know about why someone else chooses what they choose?
It is when we begin to see that underneath, in mind, we're all the same anyway. Strip away the loud, the hairy, the beauty and all that's left is mind. Or we're all just alive, as Don Miguel Ruiz Jr liked to call it. In essence we are only that life, that energy, that thought, that creator and nothing more.
We are not our bodies, our stuff, our professions, our skin color or any of our preferences. We are all merely spirit, love, Divine. Just the Divine having a little adventure here on earth.
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
What's Behind the Costume? Halloween Reflections: Drop the Ego Costume and See the Love Within
Life as a Costume: The Roles We Play
Even though I am a student of A Course in Miracles, I regularly attend a Science of Mind church. My minister, Rev. Liz Luoma, likes to refer to us all as adorable little packages of God. We’re all in different “packages,” but underneath, we are all the same essence.
Last month, during the Halloween season, she likened these packages to costumes. When we live on earth, we take on a costume (or role or character) and develop it over a lifetime. Our entire lives become a process of refining this character—often haunted by egoic fears and shadows.
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The Ego as a Scary Costume
Which costume have you chosen? In A Course in Miracles, these costumes are called the “ego.” The ego is our creation, not God’s. Take away the costume, the role, the character, and what is left? The part of us that God created—timeless, endless, unlimited, perfect, and One with God.
Underneath all the costumes and roles, we are not ourselves as the world sees us—we are the love and essence God created.
Lost in the Spooky Movie of Life
But we get so busy living in our costumes that we forget who we really are. We become utterly consumed by the fantasy, convinced that our roles define us. It’s like going to a spooky movie—the lights go out, the story becomes our world, and we are completely absorbed.
Our lives on earth are similar. We get caught in the haunted illusions and forget our true selves.
Drop the costumes to forgive
Forgiveness is the act of accepting that people come here to this 3D earth and put on a costume and do silly things. They are deluded, they have simply forgotten who they really are. When we forgive, we remember for them, who they really are.
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Monday, November 10, 2014
The Light Beyond the Body
We are so much more than only bodies. We are Mind. We are connected through this mind. We are Love. We are Oneness, with each other and with our Creator.
Christ's vision has one law. It does not look upon a body, and mistake it for the Son whom God created. It beholds a light beyond the body; an idea beyond what can be touched, a purity undimmed by errors, pitiful mistakes, and fearful thought of guilt from dreams of sin. It sees no separation. And it looks on everyone, on every circumstance, all happenings and all events, without the slightest fading of the light it sees. --A Course in Miracles, Lesson 158
In this passage from the Course, we are told to look beyond bodies. God's real creation is our Minds, the Love we all share. Every one of us was created in this Love. It's telling us that bodies and earthly events are unimportant. What's important is the Light of God that is a part of every one of us.
Thus are his sins forgiven him, for Christ has vision that has power to overlook them all. In His forgiveness are they gone. Unseen by One they merely disappear, because a vision of the Holiness that lies beyond them comes to take their place. It matters not what form they took, nor how enormous they appeared to be, nor who seemed to be hurt by them. They are no more. And all effects they seemed to have are gone with them, undone and never to be done. --A Course in Miracles, Lesson 158
When we look past bodies, we can forgive anything, because we see that the real truth is what is happening in the Mind, not here in this earthly 3D dream world. And the truth of the real Mind is Love.
We're all here on earth having some adventures and learning some lessons, but where we really are, with God, none of this matters. And in that real place, we love everyone and in fact, are joined with everyone.
When you give unto another that which alone is true, because all minds are joined, you have offered unto them the only gift that holds value. When you give another the truth--perhaps even without saying a word--because all minds are joined they recognize what has been offered and say to themselves, "The one before me knows the truth of me and is looking right through every one of my attempts to be less than who I am. Therefore I see that it's safe to choose again." That is when miracles occur. --The Way of Mastery p. 86
When you look past the body and see only the light, you know the truth of even the worst villains. Remember that this all happens on the level of the Mind, where thoughts are joined. Knowing this truth, holds the place for them, in your mind. And this gives them the chance to know your forgiveness. You are giving them your love which is a chance for them to choose love for themselves.
Whether they do or not, is not your concern. You get what you give. Your forgiveness of others creates your own acceptance of yourself. Self love. It happens over time as you forgive others and the world around you.
Self love creates peace. Peace leads to happiness. This is how forgiveness is the key to happiness.