If you obsess about how the world is wronging you and hold old grudges, you will see annoyances, irritations, hurts, injuries and emotional pain showing up in your life.
If you judge others then you will be criticized, found lacking and rejected in your own life.
In fact, the same sorts of damaging people and painful events will repeatedly show up in your life. For example, maybe rejection is one of your hot buttons. Perhaps you experienced profound and painful rejection as a child. Now you are judging and rejecting other people. And they are judging and rejecting you. This is a vicious cycle which you yourself are creating in your own life. Of course, it seems like the rejection is coming from the world around. But you are it's actual source.
That's actually good news, because as the source of your own experience in life, you have the opportunity to create something that is not causing yourself pain. You can change your mind. In essence, you get a chance to get it right.
As it turns out, you get many chances. Every time you participate in wrong thinking, you will get a painful lesson. Over and over again. The universe is offering you a chance to see the world differently. You can create beauty and love in your world. You are the one in charge of your own happiness.
Clean up your thoughts, offer the world love and forgiveness, stop the habit of judging others, and you will see your life change. It will become happy.
Available at;
Barnesandnoble.com
Amazon.com
Balboapress.com
