tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60542397778135816682024-03-14T04:31:59.342-07:00Forgive And Be HappyForgiveness is the key to happiness. It's easier than you think. Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.comBlogger164125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-43278296646282696192020-03-02T12:06:00.001-08:002020-03-02T14:07:25.397-08:00Corona Virus--Can Forgiveness, Positive Thoughts and Actions Help You Stay Well?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">A good friend of mine, Gwendalyn Gilliam, just wrote the following article which I liked so much, I asked for permission to include here. Reading it opened my eyes to some new ways to think about Coronavirus as it becomes present in our world:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b>10 WAYS TO
BEAT CORONAVIRUS</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14pt;">Gwendalyn
Gilliam, LMT</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">It’s true.
There’s a virus out there and it’s spreading rampantly, easily, (no one is <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>exactly
sure how); and it’s a nasty one that can
potentially kill you. At the current rate, it’s pretty clear that eventually
every one of us will probably wind up getting exposed, despite our best
efforts.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Whether it
evolved naturally or was, as rumored, engineered; the fact of this disease
breaking out in the world’s foremost hub of economic productivity represents
the equivalent of a global physical and financial attack, one that <span style="color: #0b5394;"><i>we can beat
collectively</i></span> if enough of us step back to see the bigger picture and change our
fear habits.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i>Here are my
top 10 things you can do today to beat Coronavirus.</i></b> </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Some of them come from a
natural healing/quantum physics perspective and though proven to be powerful
and effective, you may find them surprising and even controversial. You don’t
have to actually believe them, just be <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">willing
to</i>, and then open up to watch them begin to work.
It’s the willingness that cracks open the darkness and lets in the light, so
tell yourself right now: “Whatever this is, if it will help save me physically
and financially, I am willing to believe it, and if I can’t fully, it’s okay. I’m staying open.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i> 1. Look at the Facts...</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">It’s easy to
let our minds get wrapped around the flagpole of panic and despair, but rather
than do that, it’s important to pause and take a look at the evidence. First of
all, COVID-19 (Coronavirus) hasn’t killed a drop in the bucket compared to the
plain old flu this year. At this writing the global death toll for Coronavirus
is 2,800, compared to this year’s whopping estimated 291,000-646,000 from
regular flu. If you average the estimated range you get 468,500, or 167X more deaths
than from Coronavirus.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">But it’ just
beginning, you say. So let’s compare the infection vs. death rate to that from
MERS a few years ago, which had a 34.4% death rate. Although no one is standing
firm on the numbers, it looks like Coronavirus is killing somewhere between
3-7%. Fully 81% of those infected have mild cases, and no one under the age of
10 has died.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Which is
where you and your health and immunity come in to play, and here’s the very
good news. You can do a lot to build up your immune system, both physically and
energetically, and in this you have total control. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> <b><i><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></i></b></span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i>2. Say Goodbye to Hand Sanitizers and Germicides</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">You may think I’m robbing you of your first line of defense against the
virus, but the opposite is true. Let’s take back the power we’ve given the germ
(i.e. bacterial, viral and fungal) world. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are healthy germs and mean ones. We
carry more bacteria in our gut, by a large margin, than we have cells in our
entire bodies. We’re born with them and we couldn’t
digest our food without them.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">How did it
happen that we came to hand our power over to tiny microbes? To explain we need
to go back in history to a little known event at the death bed of Louis
Pasteur, champion of the germ theory, which won out over his competing
contemporary, Joseph Hahnemann, and his theory of homeopathic medicine. (Had it
gone differently, today our whole idea of disease would be upturned and we’d
all be taking remedies in milk sugar pellets under our tongues to increase
rather and decrease our symptoms. Symptoms are often the body’s defenses at work:
e.g., a fever burns out infection by circulating the blood faster and upping
its friction with the vascular walls. (Side note: If you have body aches from flu, just
relax the area and they will ease. The pain is from the muscles not allowing
the vessels to expand under pressure of greater blood flow.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">It’s
reported that as Pasteur breathed his last breath he admitted to the superiority
of his rival’s theory, saying, “It’s not the mosquito, but the swamp it swims
in.” In other words, the germs can only become as deadly as our defenses are
weak. If it was only about germs we’d have no doctors, nurses or hospital
staff. They’d all be dead.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Germs grow
in microscopic gardens all around us, on every surface. When you use a hand
sanitizer or chemical germicide at home you kill off the friendly flora and
make room for the bad ones to go crazy and fill in the deficit. There was a
study years ago that compared the germ count on the countertops of a meticulous
housewife who used germicide to that of a bachelor who did not. And yes, the
bachelor’s home was much cleaner germ wise and healthier because the natural
counter balances, germ species to germ species, were still intact.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">So let nature’s
checks and balances take effect. You’re never going to erase all germs without
an autoclave and a freezer, which would need to take them back and forth several times, and even
then their spores would lie in wait for an opportune moment.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">In my college microbiology class we did an experiment with the
disinfecting power of sunlight. We cut a paper capital E and laid it in the
middle of the agar in a petri dish, held it outdoors in the sun for 2 minutes,
then covered it and put it in an incubator. A week later we found a perfect
letter E in fuzzy bacterial growth, with the rest of the dish completely clear.
Were it not for the sun, our planet would be overrun with bacteria, viruses and
fungi. That’s why mold grows in the dark. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="font-size: 14pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"><i>4. Create Your Immune Building Lifestyle</i></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">If you’ve been procrastinating getting into shape, now is a great excuse
to start a moderate exercise regimen, which builds your immunity by circulating
the healing factors in your blood.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Another great immune builder is to swim in cold water because it
increases your body’s adaptability. If this isn’t possible or if you’re not
that radically hardy, a long cold splash at the end of your shower is
powerfully beneficial. If you can spare the water, going back between hot and
cold a few times forces the blood to gush through your internal organs (hot)
and then back to the skin (cold).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">And of course, lots of rest, especially when you feel like you’re about to
come down with something, provides your body the energy needed to fight the
bug.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="font-size: 14pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"><i>5. Remedies</i></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">The effects of natural healing are much more subtle than consuming typical
allopathic medicines which extract the active ingredient from an herb,
isolating it from protective buffers, and then multiplying
it as much as 1,000 times. So don’t expect a one pill wonder here. Natural
healing works when each system (vascular,
respiratory, digestive, hormonal and immune) supports
the others.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Here’s a partial list and what they do:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Preventive:<b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Celery juice dissolves all bacteria, viruses and fungus in the body<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Lemon water with honey and garlic (if you can stand it) cleanses the
liver, increases hydration, adds Vitamin C and antioxidants, and reduces
inflammation. The honey helps pull it into the liver, especially first thing in
the morning<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">-- Ginseng, produces more antiviral protein<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Get Airborne.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s vitamin, herb
and mineral blend supports immunity <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Intermittent cleansing and fasting eliminates toxins that feed
pathogens (message me for more on this—I’m an
aficionado since 1973!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Remediative:<b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Honeygar, warm water with up to 1 T vinegar and 1 t honey (you can
reverse the amounts if you need to) throughout the day. The buffers in the
vinegar absorb many times their weight in acid, alkalizing the body and
rendering it less hospitable to germs. This treatment in particular can trigger
a healing crisis, the disease’s last stand <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">--Supplements and Tinctures (can dose as much as hourly):<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Echinacea, immune booster<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Ginger, stimulates immunity to kill
viruses<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Elderberry, fights viruses<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Cayenne, dries up mucus<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Goldenseal, fights microorganisms and
dries mucus<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Oscillococcinum as directed relieves
flu symptoms</span></div>
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<b><i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i>6. Visualize White Light and Wellness Within
You</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">As your mind and body work together, this technique calls your white
blood cells to the area you’re working with. It’s easy to do when you’re well,
much harder when you’re sick. I’ve used it to heal everything from plantar
warts to pneumonia. It uses imagination, which is always the doorway to what
you don’t know how to do. These three methods work the best:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">A.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Picture a ball of white light for as
long as you can sustain it if you feel, say, a little tickle in your throat,
all the way to full blown symptoms.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">B.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Imagine your body’s energy system
flowing like a three-dimensional donut down through your core and out your
feet, up around to enter the top of your head again. In this flow, introduce
thousands of little white ninja stars spinning and slicing to pieces anything
and everything that is not supposed to be there. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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yourself: healthy and strong, playing with your full vitality in force. Your
body will take this and run with it and it’s also entertaining and hopeful.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"><b><i> </i></b></span></span></span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i>7. Laugh a Lot</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Norman Cousins proved this by healing a life threatening illness by
watching Marx Brothers movies and writing <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Anatomy
of an Illness</i>. Laughing gives you a mini workout, boosts immunity, wipes
out stress, clears your mind, and improves natural killer cell activity.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"> <span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"><b><i> </i></b></span></span></span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><b><i>8. Unify With You</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Make sure that every thought you have about yourself is a good one. If
you mess up, accept it. Letting your thoughts turn to self-judgment will take
you down faster than anything, kind of like tearing a hole in your hot air
balloon. Practice pivoting self-criticism from the voice in your head the
moment you feel its disturbance. Just laugh, give yourself a hug and tell
yourself something wonderful about you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">More than
the physical danger, the real threat Coronavirus poses is its attack upon our
world’s economic prosperity. This we absolutely can turn around, individually
and as a whole. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">At a quantum
level, it’s impossible for anything to come to us that doesn’t match our own
frequency. While it’s easy to “awfulize” in a situation where there is
financial uncertainty, it’s the most destructive thing you can do. Three weeks
of worry, or negative visualization, can do your business in.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">When you
understand how absolute your sovereignty to create your life actually is, you
never doubt that what comes to you is for your good. You’re able to take
responsibility for negative events from the past in a way that may sound almost
cruel: children who are starving every day! But the key is that we are immortal,
so our lifetimes become more like costumes donned for a play of experience,
none of which is either positive or negative, only what we decide them to be. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Realize that
what comes to you is not what you wish to believe, but what you actually do
believe, and therein lies the work. Again, it begins by opening to the
possibility, not trying to force it, just sitting and being with it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">So if your
financial security is threatened by Coronavirus, imagining how to change gears
and begin something that will sustain you in this situation is much more
productive, fun and encouraging than dreading the worst. Create your day the
night before and say, “Tomorrow I am meeting remarkable people, and doing
amazing things, and all the time I’m feeling so excited about my life and how
great I can make it,” and when you wake, carry it into your day. Recognize
doubt as just a refusal to participate.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">I believe that our souls come to this world to experience the greatest
possible opportunity to grow, which is amply afforded on Earth by unlimited
free will and the wildest of life challenges. Knowing this, you can apply the
old metaphysical saying, “What you resist persists.” Forgiveness has nothing to
do with ignoring a problem or pretending that it’s not bad. You don’t justify
or make yourself vulnerable to it in the future. It’s simply about letting go.
Refusing to forgive a person or situation is like drinking poison and hoping the
other party will suffer for it. According to Sue Pipal’s book, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Forgiveness is the Key to Freedom: It’s
EasierThan You Think!<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">This Coronavirus
outbreak actually provides a splendid opportunity for all of us as a human
species to break the chains of fear that have held and driven us for thousands
of years. I know that by creating our way out of Coronavirus panic we can all
receive the priceless gem of knowing that the next time adversity strikes we
can do it all over again and come out on top--all of us, doing our part,
together, for the good of all. And I think we’re ready!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Namas-Day<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-74683258436249680392015-04-01T08:19:00.000-07:002015-04-01T08:24:12.747-07:00I See You<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I stumbled across this section in my reading of The Way of Mastery this morning:<br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;">"All minds are joined, and I see not a stranger before me, but one who walks as I walk, who feels as I feel, who longs as I long, who is humbled as I am humbled, who prays for peace as I have prayed. </span></blockquote>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;">Therefore I will give them what they seek. And in that giving, I receive it." </span><span style="font-size: x-small;">Way of Mastery p. 122</span></blockquote>
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This is how forgiveness begins. It occurs in the moment when we see others as being the same as ourselves. <br />
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All minds are joined and therefore, in many ways, <b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">they are, actually, us</span></i></b>. <br />
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I found myself contemplating the line from the quote above, "therefore I will give them what they seek". Just what do they seek? Well, just as I do, everyone ultimately seeks love. Everyone longs to be loved, to feel love and to give love in return. It's our basic nature. Love is what we are and we all seek to return to it. <br />
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What makes us feel loved? Being loved is being recognized. We feel loved when others acknowledge our existence, our worth, our truth. When others accept and acknowledge us, we feel valued. We all simply want to be seen.<br />
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In the movie Avatar, I love the way they say hello to each other. They stop and face each other and look directly into one another's eyes, <b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">"I see you."</span></i></b> <br />
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I see you, is what it's all about. Seeing and accepting the existence of another human being is the act of extending love. Forgiveness happens in this moment. The miracle happens in this moment. When we shift our thinking from fear to love, from confusion and opposition to acknowledgement, forgiveness happens. <br />
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We are simply knowing the truth, that ultimately we are all the same, despite the crazy things we all do here, despite the crazy dreams we follow in this insane 3D world we call earth. At our core, in our joined minds, we are all, each and every one of us, simply love.<br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;">"Forgiveness is an act through which you learn what Love is, that carries you into a transcendence of the world. Sharing only loving thoughts, supportive thoughts -- as you look gently upon the Christ in another is a way that takes you into the transcendence of the world. Looking upon all things of this world and seeing their perfect harmlessness, their lack of ability to constrain you or harm you or imprison you, is a way that takes you beyond the world."</span> --<span style="font-size: x-small;">Way of Mastery p. 127-8</span></blockquote>
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-74207561758848234112015-03-17T12:54:00.000-07:002015-03-17T12:54:58.863-07:00The Past is Over<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
These days, Robert Holden is my favorite author. In December I read <i>"Loveability"</i>. I was so impressed with it that I immediately bought a stack of copies and gave it to everyone I know for Christmas gifts. My friends and family are just as impressed as I was. <div>
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The day I turned the last page, I closed the book, set it aside for a month, opened it back up and started reading and studying it all over again. I am now reading "Shift Happens!: How to Live an Inspired Life" and I love it, too. Robert Holden has been <i>A Course in Miracles</i> student and teacher for many years, but his explanations and point of view are very easy to understand and he relates so well to anyone's everyday experiences. <div>
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Here's a little bit from a short section in <i>Shift Happens </i>about forgiving the past:</div>
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<b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">Forgiveness releases you from the past.</span></i></b> When you meditate on forgiveness, you learn that, in fact, <i>there is no past in the MIND of God</i>. In other words, your past is never held against you <i>unless you make it so</i>. Guilt is a choice and so is forgiveness. When you choose guilt, you bury your gifts, you live in fear, and everyone misses what you could offer. When you choose forgiveness, everyone can win. </blockquote>
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How do you know if you are holding on to your past? You are unhappy! When you are struggling, ask yourself, <i>What am I holding on to from the past? </i> What old thought, old block, or old fear are you still clinging to? </blockquote>
Holden encourages us to ask ourselves these important questions:<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">I am afraid of _______because in the past I _____________.</span></i></b></blockquote>
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<b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">I have given up on ___________because in the past I ____________.</span></i></b></blockquote>
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<b><i><span style="color: #134f5c;">I am depressed now because in the past I ______________.</span></i></b></blockquote>
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What are some of the areas in your life where you feel unhappy or unproductive, stymied, thwarted, victimized or stuck in lack? Spend some time pondering those areas with these questions in mind. Watch what comes up. Then let it go. It's the past. It has nothing to do with the you of today. It's holding you back in unhappiness. It's nothing you need. Guilt is nothing you need. Rejection is nothing you need. Lack is nothing you need. Let it go. Know it, feel it, love it and gently let it go. <br />
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One way to let these things go is to imagine that the Holy Spirit (your soul, your higher self) has given you a beautiful white light altar and it is right in front of you. This gorgeous marble light altar transforms everything upon it into pure love. It's the love altar. <br />
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When these memories and emotions from the past come up, spend a few moments with them, intensify them and experiencing them all over again. Then gently and lovingly ask them to place themselves on the altar. Let them be released, transformed and swept away out of your life forever. Let go. Forgiving is the act of letting love replace fear. It is that point when the miracle appears. <br />
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Holden suggests that we can then affirm "The past is over" and "Now is new". He says, "The moment you let go of your past, you stop projecting it on to the present. <br />
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His final paragraph in the section is this:<br />
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To let go of your past, do these three things. First, be willing to forgive yourself for every mistake you think you ever made. Affirm "The past is over," and let forgiveness wipe away all tears. Second, if you want to be free of your past mistakes, free everyone from theirs. In other words, forgive<i> everyone</i>. Third, pray, "Dear God, I'm back!" Now let yourself be innocent again, free again, and ready again to say "Yes" to new healing, new happiness and a new futures.</blockquote>
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-35049403297971500662015-02-18T08:09:00.000-08:002015-02-18T08:12:44.244-08:00We all want the same thing...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-size: large;">Recognize all whom you see as brothers, because only equals are at peace.</span> --A Course in Miracles</span></blockquote>
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Power struggles happen because we think we are both separate and different from each other. We forget that we are both made of the same love and that we both share the same basic interest, which is to love and to be loved. --Robert Holden<br />
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We are both made of the same love.<br />
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Every one of comes from the same source. <br />
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We are all made in the same image. <br />
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Love is what we are. <br />
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And we all want the same thing here on earth. We want to know that love. We want to experience the truth of ourselves. It's sometimes hard to remember that truth here. There are so many blocks to it. And, of course, we've created them all ourselves.<br />
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But all we really want is know love, be love, receive love and give love. Every action we take, every thought we think, it all boils down to one basic desire, and that is to know love again. <br />
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When you see someone behaving badly, just know that he is blocked from understanding and seeing his truth. His motivation comes from the desire to be loved. He is simply confused about how to actually achieve that. He can't see it. <br />
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Give him the love he needs in the form of your forgiveness.<br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-37094640488069193062015-01-25T16:00:00.000-08:002015-01-25T16:00:04.690-08:00Judging Other People's "Conditions"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr spoke at my church this morning. He was excellent, deep and a fascinating speaker. Much of what he said resonated with me. I loved this on judging, especially. He said that <b><i>when we judge someone we are evaluating them for conditions that they never agreed to. </i></b><br />
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What that means is that, we have created "opinions" and "beliefs" in our mind which are the conditions. Our conditions are not necessarily someone elses conditions. And yet, we look at others and judge them by <b><i>our</i></b> conditions. <br />
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We all have free will. We are free to decide which experiences we want to have and which ones we don't want.<br />
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If we look at our lives here like a trip to Disneyland we can see that not everyone wants to ride on Space Mountain. It's too fast for some people. Some people just want to do the River Boat Cruise. They like slow. They want to take their time and enjoy the sunshine. It's dark in Space Mountain and the lights flash by in a jarring way. On the River Boat Cruise you can listen to the sounds of birds in the trees. You can watch the patterns the boat makes in the water as it passes through.<br />
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Who's right? Is it the guy that likes fast, dark and scary Space Mountain or is it the one who prefers sunny, slow and peaceful River boating? <br />
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Of course, there's no right and wrong here. We all get to choose our own adventure. That's why we're here. We choose an adventure and we learn some things along the way. Our pathway and our learning is our pathway alone and no one elses. We're all heading toward the same ultimate place, but how we get there is determined by each of us individually with our own free will. <br />
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Let's not judge anyone else's choices. If they want to be the loud one, or the hairy one or the stubborn one, or the beautiful one or the deep thinking one, just let them be. They never agreed to be a part of the group that thinks that beauty is important. They never agreed to be a part of the group that loves to fight, or the group that likes living in the desert, or the group that wants to save the rain forest, or the group that thinks tattoos are cool. Those aren't the conditions they adhere to. <br />
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They are learning just as we are. Let's not judge what they choose to learn or how, where and when they do it.<br />
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What can we possibly know about why someone else chooses what they choose? <br />
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It is when we begin to see that underneath, in mind, we're all the same anyway. Strip away the loud, the hairy, the beauty and all that's left is mind. Or we're all just alive, as Don Miguel Ruiz Jr liked to call it. In essence we are only that life, that energy, that thought, that creator and nothing more. <br />
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We are not our bodies, our stuff, our professions, our skin color or any of our preferences. We are all merely spirit, love, Divine. Just the Divine having a little adventure here on earth. <br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-64939842095127531232014-11-18T08:43:00.000-08:002014-11-18T08:43:30.848-08:00What's Behind the Costume?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Even though I am a student of <i>A Course in Miracles</i>, I regularly attend a Science of Mind church. My minister there, Rev. Liz Luoma, loves to refer to us all as adorable little packages of God. We're all in different adorable packages, but underneath, we're really all just the same thing. <br />
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Last month when everyone was thinking about Halloween and costumes, she likened these packages to costumes. When we come here to live on earth, we take on a costume (or a role or character), and we develop it and refine it throughout our lives. In fact, our entire lives become about creating every little facet, characteristic, preference and circumstance for that very character.<br />
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The<i> Course</i> likes to call these costumes the "ego". The ego is our creation, not God's. <br />
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Take away the costume, the role, the character, the ego and what is left underneath? Why God stuff, of course. That's all we really are. <br />
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We are really only playing a game of Charades. We fool ourselves into believing that our costumes are who we really are, but underneath the costume is actually our Truth. Underneath the costume is the part of us that God created. That part is timeless, endless, unlimited and perfect. It is all that is and it is One with God. And everyone of us shares in this. We are all together, exactly the same, and One in God. <br />
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It all boils down to this...underneath our costumes, we are each actually only Love. <br />
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But...we get so busy living in our costumes, playing our roles, being that character, that we forget who we really are. We are so good at it, in fact, that we've convinced ourselves that we actually really are our costumes. <br />
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Think of it like going to the movies. The lights go out and if the movie is good, it becomes our world. We are utterly lost in it. It is everything to us for that brief ninety minutes or so. We are completely consumed and we know nothing else.<br />
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Our lives here on earth are just like that. We get caught up in the fantasy and we forget who we really are. <br />
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<i style="font-weight: bold;">Drop the costumes to forgive-- </i> Forgiving requires that we simply drop those costumes for a moment. There is a larger part of us and it is not here in this silly playground of costumes. We must back up for a moment and see both ourselves and our trespasser in our true states. We must know that both of us are really only Love. We are exactly the same and we are always One in God.<br />
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Forgiveness is the act of accepting that people come here to this 3D earth and put on a costume and do silly things. They are deluded, they have simply forgotten who they really are. When we forgive, we remember for them, who they really are. <br />
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We raise them up in our minds. We know that they are really always with God, in God, One with God. We see that truth. <br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;">You are Spirit,</span></i></b></div>
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;">Whole and Innocent,</span></i></b></div>
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;">I forgive you.</span></i></b></div>
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;">I release you.</span></i></b></div>
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;">I bless you with Love. </span></i></b></div>
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I often start my forgiveness process with the words above. But then I go deeper. I have developed a set of words that walks me mentally through the process of seeing the higher truth for someone whom I am forgiving. It takes me about five minutes to do this and when I am finished I am able to see anyone for who they really are. <br />
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And I really do mean anyone. No matter how personally harmful or globally destructive their actions may seem, it is possible to shift your feelings about a trespasser from egoic fear feelings to those of Love. <br />
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The words I use are in my book, <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Forgiveness-Key-Happiness-Easier-Think/dp/1452583374/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1416327501&sr=8-1" target="_blank">Forgiveness is the Key to Happiness</a></i>. There is an entire chapter on this process. If you'd like to be able to change your thinking, see through the costumes of this temporary world and focus on the bigger picture and the higher truth, I encourage you to get a copy of the book and practice this process for yourself. You have only your happiness to gain. </div>
Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-8254446999343015832014-11-10T12:42:00.000-08:002014-11-10T12:42:50.967-08:00The Light Beyond the Body<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
In <b><i>A Course in Miracles</i></b>, the "Christ" Mind refers to that part in all of us that knows that it is the Son of God and chooses to think with love, rather than fear. <br />
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We are so much more than only bodies. We are Mind. We are connected through this mind. We are Love. We are Oneness, with each other and with our Creator.<br />
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<span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;"><b><i>Christ's vision has one law. It does not look upon a body, and mistake it for the Son whom God created. It beholds a light beyond the body; an idea beyond what can be touched, a purity undimmed by errors, pitiful mistakes, and fearful thought of guilt from dreams of sin. It sees no separation. And it looks on everyone, on every circumstance, all happenings and all events, without the slightest fading of the light it sees.</i></b></span> <span style="font-size: x-small;">--A Course in Miracles, Lesson 158</span></blockquote>
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In this passage from the Course, we are told to look beyond bodies. God's real creation is our Minds, the Love we all share. Every one of us was created in this Love. It's telling us that bodies and earthly events are unimportant. What's important is the Light of God that is a part of every one of us.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;">Thus are his sins forgiven him, for Christ has vision that has power to overlook them all. In His forgiveness are they gone. Unseen by One they merely disappear, because a vision of the Holiness that lies beyond them comes to take their place. It matters not what form they took, nor how enormous they appeared to be, nor who seemed to be hurt by them. They are no more. And all effects they seemed to have are gone with them, undone and never to be done. </span></i></b> <span style="font-size: x-small;">--A Course in Miracles, Lesson 158</span></blockquote>
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When we look past bodies, we can forgive anything, because we see that the real truth is what is happening in the Mind, not here in this earthly 3D dream world. And the truth of the real Mind is Love. <br />
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We're all here on earth having some adventures and learning some lessons, but where we really are, with God, none of this matters. And in that real place, we love everyone and in fact, are joined with everyone. <br />
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<span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;"><b><i>When you give unto another that which alone is true, because all minds are joined, you have offered unto them the only gift that holds value. When you give another the truth--perhaps even without saying a word--because all minds are joined they recognize what has been offered and say to themselves, "The one before me knows the truth of me and is looking right through every one of my attempts to be less than who I am. Therefore I see that it's safe to choose again." That is when miracles occur. </i></b></span> -<span style="font-size: x-small;">-The Way of Mastery p. 86</span></blockquote>
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When you look past the body and see only the light, you know the truth of even the worst villains. Remember that this all happens on the level of the Mind, where thoughts are joined. Knowing this truth, holds the place for them, in your mind. And this gives them the chance to know your forgiveness. You are giving them your love which is a chance for them to choose love for themselves. <br />
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Whether they do or not, is not your concern. You get what you give. Your forgiveness of others creates your own acceptance of yourself. Self love. It happens over time as you forgive others and the world around you.<br />
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Self love creates peace. Peace leads to happiness. This is how forgiveness is the key to happiness. <br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-23537043138455233492014-10-29T09:36:00.001-07:002014-10-29T09:39:03.340-07:00Our Job is to Clean Up Our Minds<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: large;">Removing the blocks to the awareness of love's presence" </span><span style="font-size: x-small;">--A Course in Miracles (Intro 1: 6,7)</span></span><span style="font-size: x-small;"> </span></span></i></b></blockquote>
This is the goal <i>A Course in Miracles</i> defines for us in its introduction. It is one of the very first statements in a book of over 1300 pages. What does it mean? What are these blocks to love?<br />
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Blocks are created through our unforgiveness. They are the things we judge, what we are unable to accept.<br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: inherit;"><b><i><span style="font-size: large;">"Your work is not to seek and find love. It is merely to turn within to discover every obstacle that you have created to its presence, and to offer that obstacle to the great dissolver of dreams, the grace of the Holy Spirit."</span><span style="font-size: x-small;">--Way of Mastery p. 72</span></i></b></span></blockquote>
<span style="font-family: inherit;">So much of what we have filled our minds with is <b><i>not love</i></b>. Our memories, our subconscious mind and our current thinking is filled with hurt, pain, anger, judgment, upset, guilt and every form of negative thinking. </span><br />
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Until we remove this negative thinking, these blockages, these obstacles, we are unable to allow ourselves to accept the love that God is always offering to us, in every moment, in every place. We do not allow ourselves to see the truth of God's love...<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We actually believe in sin and punishment. <b><i>Even though we know that God created us in his own image and that therefore we are perfect.</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We actually believe in our own lack of worth. <b><i>Even though we know that God loves us infinitely.</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">We actually believe in anger, victimhood, revenge and hate. <b><i>Even though we know that God created every single one of us in love and that we are all one with him and with each other.</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Our job is to clean up our minds. We have to sort out all this wrong, emotional, fear based thinking. </span> We have to search out the blockages, the obstacles, and turn them over to Spirit. <br />
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How do we do this? With forgiveness, of course. It's a process and it doesn't happen overnight We have to deliberately seek out every part of our mind where we are blocking love. And that means digging around in our pasts, in our subconscious and really and truly examining the way we think in the present.<br />
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It's important not to get overwhelmed by the task ahead and to keep our eyes on the prize. And the prize for doing this work is huge. Actually, it's everything. <i><b>It's everything you have always wanted and not known how to get</b></i>. It's why you're here. It's what you seek. <br />
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Once we have done this work of removing blockages, <b><i>we will be able to receive love</i></b>. <br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-85986965119125037962014-10-28T08:53:00.001-07:002014-10-28T10:52:36.335-07:00What's my assignment?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
A Course in Miracles talks a lot about our function. <br />
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Our function is our purpose, it's why we're here, it's our assignment. <br />
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Are we here to get rich? To raise beautiful children? To see the world? To enjoy our lives? To be nice to other people? <br />
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Although there's nothing wrong with any of these activities, they have nothing to do with our true function, our true purpose, our true assignment. We're here for so much more than all this. <br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;">"Forgiveness is my function as the Light of the World".</span></i></b> -<span style="font-size: x-small;">-Workbook Lesson 63</span></blockquote>
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What does it mean to choose forgiveness as our true function? <br />
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It's not just forgiving the guy that stole your parking place. It's more than forgiving the person who deeply and truly broke your heart. It's more than forgiving your parents for the overall permeating sense of rejection they created in your life. It's more than forgiving what's going on right now in the Middle East. It's so much more than any part of this alone. <br />
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Our true function is to forgive ALL of this. We are here to forgive the WORLD. All of it! Yes, every single bit of pain, hurt, difficulty, frustration, lack, murder, sin, guilt, upset and fear. The whole enchilada is what we're here for.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #073763;">"Feel what you have created as a substitute for the truth. Own it, look upon it, and then let it go. Learn that regardless of what choice you may have made in the past, once you have embraced it, once you have felt it, you remain perfectly innocent and imbued with the power to choose again, to feel, to learn once again to feel the glorious warmth that permeates the Kingdom of Heaven."</span></i></b> <span style="font-size: x-small;">--Way of Mastery p. 81</span> </blockquote>
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We are here to accept every single bit of fear we see in the world around us. Every bit. We must see it, feel it, forgive it, accept it and release all judgment of it. And as we do so, we transmute our feelings about what we see into love. With acceptance comes love. And with love comes peace.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #073763;">"There will not be a molecule of beingness within you that will feel any resentment, any longing, any anger, or any remorse for anything. All of your experience will have become wholly acceptable to you. For it was by such experience that you were finally driven to want only the Truth."</span></i></b> <span style="font-size: x-small;">--Way of Mastery p. 81</span> </blockquote>
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That's why we're here folks. Nothing more and nothing less. To forgive, accept and embrace with love all that exists. <br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-1199933539679237762014-10-24T09:12:00.000-07:002014-10-24T09:12:56.457-07:00The Moment When Life Begins<i>A Course in Miracles</i> tells us that in all moments we are making a choice between love and fear. It is very simple, really. All we have to do is choose love <i><b>now</b></i>. And in the next moment, choose love <i><b>now</b></i>.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-size: large;">"When you look upon all things without judgment through the eyes of forgiveness, when you decide to embody only the reality of Love no matter what anybody else is doing, that is when life begins."</span> </span></i></b> <span style="font-size: x-small;">--The Way of Mastery p.79</span></blockquote>
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Only we can be the master of our thought. No one else can get inside our head. We must be the one to cease the endless fear thoughts the ego stirs up. At times, this may <i><b>seem </b></i>difficult to do, however, this is only the fearful thinking of the ego, trying to convince us it can't be done. It can be done. It must be done.<br />
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And what is our reward for this effort? Why, it's peace, of course. It's love. Happiness. Joy. <br />
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It's a chance to leave this "hell on earth" we create in our very own minds and enter into Heaven right here in our own daily lives. Right here. Right now.<br />
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In most moments, most days, it's just a matter of noticing our thoughts. When fear creeps in, when judgment takes over, we can make another choice. "Choose again", as <i>A Course in Miracles</i> says. We can make that choice to <a href="http://www.forgiveandbehappy.com/search/label/flip%20the%20switch" target="_blank">flip the switch from fear to love</a>. <br />
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But...some days it's harder to flip the switch.<br />
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Occasionally the darkness descends and won't be transcended easily. When this happens, ask the Holy Spirit to help. Give all your fearful thoughts over to the Holy Spirit. If it helps, visualize yourself actually handing them over. Or create a huge white light altar and place your fear upon it. Spirit will take it from you and cleanse your mind. Sometimes this cleansing happens instantly. Sometimes this process can take hours. Vow to sit right where you are until your thinking clears. Wait it out. Every time a fear thought comes, turn it over. Do it again and again if you have to. Here's an affirmation you can use:<br />
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Repeat this over and over. Then spend some time just quietly listening with no expectations of hearing anything. If there is anyone you can forgive for anything, do it. Work at this process diligently, and I promise you, the fear will pass. Love thinking will return.<br />
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Does this seem difficult? Uncomfortable? Insane? Actually, it's insanity to live in torment, when a choice for peace exists. It's insanity to live in fear when a choice for love exists. There are people all over this planet choosing love, right now. Join us. <br />
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This is when life begins. <br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-3085887983537407092014-10-20T11:48:00.000-07:002014-10-20T22:10:49.441-07:00I See Only the Radiance<blockquote class="tr_bq">
<b><i><span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;">"For when I look upon you, I see not the very momentary dreams that you seem to think are lasting so long. I see only the radiance of that which the Father has extended out of Love. I see only that which has neither beginning nor ending. I see only that which knows neither birth nor death. I see only that which has no limitations. I see only that--the light of which is already extended throughout all dimensions and all universes."</span></i></b><span style="font-size: x-small;">--The Way of Mastery p. 70</span></blockquote>
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When we are forgiving this must be our thought process. We must look beyond this dream world where people behave badly and hurt one another. We look to our higher truth. We go into our minds and know the radiance of one another. We know the loving intentions of our Father, the creator who created each one of us in his own image. We are simply and truly only Love. That is our truth and that is the truth of our trespasser. What you see here now in front of you in this 3D illusory world is only a moment in time. It's not the higher truth. Look up. Look beyond. See only the radiance. That is the place of forgiveness.<br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-9878006802702507082014-10-02T07:22:00.000-07:002014-10-02T10:19:47.452-07:00Turn it Over to the Holy SpiritIf it's judgmental, critical, unaccepting, unkind.....<br />
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If it's upsetting anxiety-making, creating a knot in your stomach, jaw grinding...<br />
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If it's sad, grief-ridden, loss-induced, melancholy...<br />
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If it's painful, searing, humiliating, mortifying...<br />
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If it's frightening, unsafe, makes you feel untethered, all alone and unsupported...<br />
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If it's rejection, unworthiness, self-criticism, or feelings of being unloved and under-valued...<br />
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If it's lack, meager, not enough, little, reducing, insignificant, paltry...<br />
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If it's devastating, earth-shattering, bone-breaking...<br />
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You were intended to be happy and joyful. The Divine wants you to live with peace in your mind. You were created for so much more. You are magnificence. You were made from God-stuff. You are in God's Mind. You are fully, wholly, completely, perfectly...Love.<br />
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It's the Holy Spirit's job to keep you safe, supported, abundant and happy. But he can't do his work if you fill your mind with fear. Turn it over to him and <b><i><span style="color: #073763;">let him help you accept and forgive the world.</span></i></b> Accept the happiness you were always intended to have. Be the Love you really are.<br />
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<b><i><span style="color: #073763; font-size: large;">Allowance is not a passive acceptance of things as they are, but a recognition that there is something quite beautiful at work. There is an intelligence, a love, that knows you better than you know yourself and is presenting you, moment to moment, with jewels and gems and blessings and lessons that something is weaving the tapestry of your life, and nothing is happening by accident. </span></i></b> -- <b>"</b><i>The Way of Mastery</i><b>"</b>, p. 68</blockquote>
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A Course in Miracles tells us that we never know what anything is actually for. This means that many of the events in our lives are planned behind the scenes <span style="color: #0b5394;"><i><b>for us</b></i>.</span> Sometimes, when we are in the midst of one of the painful events that come up during the course of our lives, it's really hard to understand that this was gently planned for our greater good. In fact, often, we simply just can't see anything about the situation that feels that any good can come from it at all.<br />
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However, as they say, "time will tell". As the years pass, we can look back on our most painful events and understand the why of it. We see what we learned. We see how we became a stronger, better person because of it. Or, we see that we had the opportunity to learn, but didn't accept it.<br />
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No worries. When we don't learn our lessons the first time, they come around again. And again, and again. They look and smell a little differently, but they are just another version of the same darn lesson giving us yet another go at it. <b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;">We keep getting the lesson until we get it.</span></i></b> <br />
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Life really is a classroom and it's all there <i><b><span style="color: #0b5394;">for us</span></b></i>. Trust the process. Accept what comes up. Turn anything painful and all fearful thinking over to the Holy Spirit. As Jennifer Hadley likes to say, "Let the Holy Spirit do the heavy lifting". Turning it over is an act of allowing. It's the miracle in action, that moment when we choose love over fear. <br />
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Then examine these events to see how you can learn and grow from them. Try to keep your acceptance level high, your loving attitude intact and your mood in the positive. This is how we grow. This is how we become who we were really meant to be. This is how we uncover our real truth. We are spirit. We are really only love. <br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-4127553506313802702014-09-29T06:44:00.001-07:002014-09-29T07:09:38.103-07:00It's Simple...We're all the SameI woke up thinking about the Middle East this morning. I'd just love to throw a big blanket over Syria and Iraq. <b><i><span style="color: #073763;">"Sleep, everyone, just sleep"</span></i></b>, I'd whisper into the blanket. <b><i><span style="color: #073763;">"Calm down, sleep and find some quiet." </span></i></b><br />
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When everyone is finally sleeping peacefully, I'd continue my whispering. This is what I'd say:<br />
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<span style="color: #073763;"><i><b>The Divine created each and every one of us in exactly the same way.</b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="color: #073763;"><i><b>He love us infinitely. Yes, each and every one of us is loved infinitely by the Divine himself.</b></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">"I love that line: I’m not OK, you’re not OK; but that’s OK! It captures the truth about who we are and the fact that we were never meant to be perfect. If we were, there would be no one to create opportunities for us to experience forgiveness. Our perfection lies in our imperfection.</span></blockquote>
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We're all together here in this world. But we're also all together on the pathway home. That's because, in truth, we're all part of the one universal mind. We are one and collectively, we are learning and growing together. We grow through forgiveness and acceptance, which are, ultimately, only love. <br />
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Colin Tipping believes that we all cooperate with each other, creating situations that allow us to each receive our forgiveness lessons. Of course, this cooperation occurs subconsciously, on the level of the greater mind.<br />
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At certain times in each of our lives, we are providing others with forgiveness opportunities. <br />
Just as we are each sometimes annoyed, upset or hurt by others, we all occasionally annoy, upset or hurt someone else, too. Every one of us is given the opportunity to forgive and grow many times in this lifetime. And the more we overlook those opportunities, the more "in-our-faces" they get. If we fail to forgive the first time, no worries, we'll always get another chance But the next time it will be bigger and more painful. <br />
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The next time someone hurts your feelings, try to flop the situation around in your mind. Are they at some level actually offering you a gift? <br />
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Have they volunteered to help you grow by giving you the chance to forgive? Are these "devils" actually "angels" in disguise? Can it be that their hurtful behavior is actually an act of love? <br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-15187336989049154422014-09-04T07:40:00.000-07:002014-09-04T07:44:19.973-07:00Mary Morrissey on Forgiveness<br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-25951724942539420332014-09-03T08:53:00.000-07:002014-09-03T09:02:51.601-07:00We Don't Know What Anything is ForSometimes life just ups and knocks us to the ground. Most of us have this happen to at least once or twice in life. One minute we're rocking along, moving forward and the next minute we have lost something or everything that is very dear to us.<br />
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I call this the "stripping away" because in it we lose much of what we thought we needed to be okay. This can be a very painful experience to go through. Ultimately, however, it becomes a growing experience. It is through these stripping away times in our lives that we get to see who we really are. They show us that we are so much more than the things we think we need. <br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;"><b><i>"The seeming mysteries of life with their attendant experiences are, when rightly understood, blessings in disguise, for any experience that causes us to turn more firmly to the One Active Presence, "I AM," God in Action, has served us a wonderful purpose and blessing."</i></b></span>--<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">The "I AM" Discourses</span></i></blockquote>
A Course in Miracles tells us that we "don't know what anything is for". When we are faced with circumstances that seem as if they are the annihilation of the self we have worked so hard to create, we must learn to forgive and accept what is happening to us. We must trust and know that everything we are creating in our lives is for our greater good. As the Course tells us, these events are not being done TO us, but they are FOR us. <br />
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Sometimes a "stripping away" of the old is necessary for the new to create itself. Disease, divorce, debt, great disappointment and loss all serve a purpose. Of course, when these things are happening to us, and we are in the midst of the gut-wrenching pain, it is hard to see the silver lining in these clouds. But it is there and if we forgive and accept, we will ultimately come to know it. <br />
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Forgiveness opportunities come in both small and large packages. The small are so much easier. Like you, I vastly prefer the small. However, as I look back on my life, I know that the large forgiveness opportunities are the ones which have led me to become the searcher I am today. Life is often gently moving me forward in a better direction. But sometimes I get lost and place too much importance on the wrong things. This is when the "stripping away" comes in to show me what I have been unwilling to see. I guess sometimes I just need that swift kick in the pants, the one that knocks me to the ground, writhing and gasping. I know now that when I ultimately stand again, I will be standing taller and with the greater strength of Spirit coursing within me. <br />
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The fastest way to the other side of a "stripping away" is through forgiveness. Sometimes it can take a great deal of time to recover, perhaps years, but it is always a choice to recover right now, through a total and complete act of forgiveness and acceptance. For those of us who are unable yet to forgive in full, for whom forgiveness still feels like a bitter spoonful of medicine, we must do what we can and chip away at forgiveness, taking it sip by sip until eventually, we have accomplished it. For there will be no recovery without it. <br />
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Sometimes we are given the task to learn that we can survive the things we think we can't. If we apply acceptance to these moments in our lives, we can bounce back and not only survive, but thrive. It is a choice we are given, we can elect to be "stripped away" permanently and become bitter and small, or we can forgive and grow into something even better than we were before this experience. Happiness is attainable, but not without forgiveness. <br />
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By the way, I wrote about my most recent "stripping away" experience in my book, "Forgiveness is the Key to Happiness". It was a doozy. If you want to learn what happened to me and how I grew through it, the story starts on page 83 in the chapter titled, "Life Sometimes Tears Us Down".<br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-20721664857524423422014-08-30T07:51:00.000-07:002014-08-30T07:51:33.456-07:00Bedtime Forgiveness HabitYet another reason to practice forgiveness each night before sleep...<br />
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You get what you give. It's a universal law. When you give forgiveness and love to others, it comes back to you amplified. It will show up in your life somewhere, someplace, sometime. It may not relate to the actual person you have forgiven. That relationship may or may not be salvageable. It doesn't matter. If the love does not come to you through that relationship, it will find another way to express in your life. <br />
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This leads us to the very vital point that you are concerned only with your own activity and your world. <b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;">It is not your province to judge another, for you do not know the forces playing upon another or conditions.</span></i></b> You know only the angle that you see of it, and I tell you that if an individual should be entirely innocent of any intent to wrong another, the individuals who send criticism, condemnation or hate to such an one are doing worse than committing physical murder. Why is this so? Because thought and feeling are the only Creative Power, and while such thoughts and feelings may not touch or harm their objective, <b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;">they must return and bring with them the conditions sent out by the individual who sent them forth--and always with accumulated energy. </span></i></b></blockquote>
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Judging is the opposite of forgiveness. When we forgive we "flip the switch" from<b> <i>fear</i></b> (anger, upset, annoyance, hurt) to <b><i>love</i></b>. This moment when we forgive and flip that switch is what is called the "holy instant" in <i>A Course in Miracles</i>. It is the moment when the <b><i>miracle</i></b> occurs.<br />
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On the other hand, when we judge, we are flipping the switch back in the opposite direction. We are switching back to <b><i>fear</i></b>. We judge because we are filled with fears. We feel threatened by our world in some way, and so we judge. In many cases, we don't even know why we feel fear. Often, it is coming from our sub-conscious minds.<br />
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We have two kinds of work to do if we want to stop the habit of judging. First, we must be vigilant always in guarding and protecting our minds from any vicious and judgmental fear thoughts. As <i>A Course of Miracles</i> says, "choose again". It is always within our power to choose again when we find our minds filling with fear and judgment. When we see that we are starting to judge, we can make another choice, the choice for love. <br />
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Our second work is that we must ask ourselves important examining questions when we find ourselves judging. What is this fear I feel in this moment? Where is it coming from? Why do I feel so threatened by this person? What in my past is causing this moment to flare up so large in my mind? If we are judging it is because we are feeling "little". Why? What about this person and this event is so threatening to our own sense of safety? As we examine our fears, we can forgive and release them.<br />
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Again, as it says in the <i>"I AM" Discourses</i>, "the one who holds vicious thoughts to another is in reality destroying himself". This is why as we learn to stop the ugly, destructive habit of judging others and we begin to give out love instead, the world around us changes. It becomes a place of peace, first in our minds, and then that peace begins to out-picture in our worlds. And when peace comes, we begin to find our happiness. <br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-40693529977387520162014-08-26T10:10:00.000-07:002014-08-26T10:10:05.525-07:00"Forgive the World" -- What Does it Mean?Forgiving the world...it seems like a daunting task. There's a lot of pain out there. In fact, there's a lot of suffering close-by. Where do we even start?<br />
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When it comes to forgiving the world, we need to look at how forgiving plays out in both our <i><b><span style="color: #0b5394;">immediate</span></b></i> world and the <i><b><span style="color: #0b5394;">greater world at large</span></b></i>. <br />
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<b><i>Forgiving in Our Own Backyard </i></b> In our immediate world, we can forgive the things that come up on an every day basis. Whenever we feel frustrated, angry or hurt by the people or events that surround us, we need to do a little forgiveness work. This can be done right on the spot, or it can be saved for a quiet moment later. I like to review my day each night in bed and forgive anything disturbing that happened. <br />
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<i><b>Global Forgiveness</b> </i> Forgiving the world at large is a different kind of forgiveness. It means releasing attachment. It means that we watch what is happening in Israel, in the Ukraine, in Syria or wherever, from arms length, <b><i><span style="color: #0b5394;">yet with an understanding that suffering is occurring</span></i></b>. As we observe, we do not allow our thoughts to mentally sink down with fear and angst for the events that we see. <br />
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Just as we forgive the bullies in our immediate world, we also need to forgive the bullies of the world at large. And this we can add to our nightly forgiveness work.<br />
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<i><b>Mind Work </b></i>However, when we think about the victims, we must not become upset and focused on the unfairness of it all. Thoughts are creative and this kind of thinking holds the victims down. <span style="color: #0b5394;"> <b><i>If we want their lives to improve, we need to see them in their strength and truth.</i></b> </span> We must hold the mental high ground with images of their higher source and true potential. (Of course, this doesn't mean that we refrain from providing the help needed. If there is something we can do, whatever it is, we can feel free to contribute.)<br />
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Remember that forgiveness happens on the mental plane. We must hold a vision that helps the victims and sufferers to rise up. It is our job to find the vision for peace. It is our job to forgive and to see love as a real possibility. <br />
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<i><b>World Peace Starts at Home, Inside</b></i> Of course, our biggest contribution to the healing of the world is the work we do on our very own minds. We must release our habits of judging others. If we want to heal the world, we must heal our own thinking first. When our minds become a place of peace, the world will reflect that. When we stop the attack thoughts that frequent our minds, when our minds become gentle, the world will too.<br />
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Remember that all minds are joined. We can lift others up. By filling our minds with love, we are showing others the pathway to peace. And loving thoughts have so much more power than fearful thoughts. It starts right here, right now, with us. Each of us has the opportunity to contribute to the forgiving and healing of the world. <br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-49707861809612558042014-08-25T08:00:00.001-07:002014-08-25T08:00:58.201-07:00Do you wish people well when they walk through the streets of your mind?Or is your mind a mind field?<br />
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Is your mind a dangerous place for others? If so, it is also a dangerous place for you.<br />
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What you give out, you get back. <br />
If your mental habit is to attack and judge others, then...<br />
you will be attacked and judged by others. <br />
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What are you offering to the world?<br />
When your mind is a dangerous place, you are creating a world of fear.<br />
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When your mind holds love, you are creating a world of love.<br />
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Your thought is under your own dominion.<br />
You choose your thoughts. <br />
Don't let them choose you. <br />
When attack thoughts come...<br />
Choose again. Make a choice for love.<br />
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Again and again. Make another choice.<br />
Create the habit of choosing love. Always.<br />
Let love and a better world be your legacy. <br />
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This is how you create happiness.<br />
Happiness in the world around you.<br />
And happiness in your own mind.<br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-68277819741430154092014-08-23T08:25:00.000-07:002014-08-23T08:25:31.906-07:00Look Up<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Whenever you meet someone, be sure to cast your eyes upward.<br />
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Upward to the place where the soul dwells, that higher self.<br />
See only the beauty, the love, the truth in everyone you encounter.<br />
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It's all only a dreamscape anyway.<br />
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But where you cast your gaze is how you shall dream...<br />
Look down and you will dream of suffering.<br />
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When you look for the beauty, the love and the truth in others,<br />
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<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-16249072302551089372014-08-14T08:11:00.000-07:002014-08-14T08:11:58.307-07:00"Seeing the Soul"<blockquote class="tr_bq">
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This is what real forgiveness is about. Forgiveness happens when we look beyond the "human flesh" of this 3D earthly world (and the occasional misguided and confused behavior that accompanies it), to the soaring soul essence beyond. Learn to cast your gaze to a higher place, the place where Spirit is the only truth. It is in that place that we can find forgiveness for what happens on this lower plane where many of us "know not what we do". <br />
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When we look upon our trespassers, let us look with the eyes of Spirit, not with our human eyes. This earth can be a hard, confusing place of suffering for many. Let us just acknowledge that their bad behavior is often simply coming from that place of fear that each and every one of us knows far too well. Let us see their bad behavior as we are advised to in <i>A Course in Miracles</i>, where we are asked to see "everything as either an expression for love or a call for love." Fear acts are merely<i><b> misguided calls for love</b></i>. Yes, sometimes they can be <i><b>very</b></i> misguided. But it is important to remember that they come from a place of fear, and fear is always suffering.<br />
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Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-28101572703657451052014-08-12T11:00:00.002-07:002014-08-12T11:42:05.232-07:00Forgiveness and TravelI just got back from a short trip for a friend's daughter's wedding. In looking back over my trip I see that there were a few forgiveness opportunities given to me and I'd like to share my thoughts with you about them.<br />
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<i><b>Judging </b></i> Traveling provides us with ample opportunities to observe ourselves in judgment. Airports, big cities and crowds of all sorts are full of every kind of person imaginable. Observing our thoughts and judgments as we watch the crowds around us allows us to see our judgment habits in action. Are we looking critically at people's appearances and behavior? <br />
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I confess that I love clothes and it's something that's just been a part of me since I was a little child. I often find myself thinking, "Oh, isn't that person beautifully dressed", or "Yikes! What is that person thinking, wearing that in public?" It's a bad habit I have always had and I need to rid myself of it. As our forgiveness lifestyle grows, we should be starting to see humanity with love and in appreciation of the equality and oneness that is an inherent part of each person's higher self. I know that I need to let go of my attachment to beauty and my difficulty in accepting things that are not beautiful. I'm much better than I used to be at this and I am grateful for my progress, but this is an area I must grow more in.<br />
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People do the craziest things and once we observe odd or difficult behavior, we must find forgiveness for it. While relaxing by the pool at our hotel on one of our travel days, I watched a woman sit minding her children swim while dangling her feet in the pool. She actually pulled out a pair of toenail nippers and began to give herself a manicure and pedicure flicking all the bits of nail and skin into the pool water! Yes, she did!!! It's a little hard not to judge something like that when you see it, and yes I did judge it, but I have now performed one of my forgiveness processes on her. <br />
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<i><b>Feeling Victimized</b></i> Traveling can be so trying at times, that it can easily throw us into victim-mode. Are we feeling put upon, hemmed in or herded around by the experience of traveling, the waits, the lines, the delayed schedules and traffic jams? If we do, feelings of frustration, anger and hostility may be rising to the surface. These are feelings that need to be accepted and then released and forgiven. Sometimes these feelings flare up so quickly because we are re-experiencing feelings of victimization or being out of control that come from events in our childhood. If you find yourself getting upset while you travel, do some thinking about what situations in your past felt similar to your current situation and then do a little forgiveness work on whatever comes up.<br />
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<i><b>Insecurities </b></i> Being in new places and situations can sometimes be stressful and even a little frightening. Even being in old familiar situations can be upsetting if we are feeling worried about how we will be perceived or accepted. I found myself falling into this trap. I worried that the shoes I had brought to wear were not right for the wedding so I went out and bought a new pair. Moments after I paid for them, my back went into spasm and I had to spend the next three days in discomfort and moving with difficulty. When something like this happens, take a moment to reflect on its meaning in your life. As I looked at my feelings about seeing old friends, I realized that I was worried about how I would be accepted. We may be tempted to dismiss the importance of our feelings because we believe them to be irrational, and yet, if we are feeling them, they are important. Whatever happens in our world is always created in the mind first before it out-pictures into our lives. I realized that my insecurities had triggered the episode with my back. This gave me the opportunity to look into my mind and forgive myself for the fears that lurk there.<br />
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<i><b>Getting Buttons Pushed </b></i> Of course, our biggest forgiveness work usually has to be done on the person that we spend the most time with. On this trip my husband was doing the driving while I was doing the navigating with the GPS on my ipad. It always feels to me that he is not listening to my instructions. This pushes my buttons and I had to do a little forgiveness work on him for it. One of the ways I forgive him is to see the situation from his point of view. I'm sure that from his standpoint it feels like I am nagging him. Plus I appreciate that it is difficult to drive in new places while dealing with heavy traffic, busy freeways and lots of confusion and stimulation. It probably simply takes him a few moments to process the instructions I am giving him while he attempts to deal with all of this at once. <br />
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As I start to recognize my husband's feelings and his humanity, I am ultimately recognizing his truth. He is just as much a creation of the Divine as I am. When I acknowledge that, he is forgiven, and I am also forgiving myself. After all, his truth is my truth. We are both perfect spiritual beings.<br />
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<i><b>Growth Opportunities</b></i> Remember that we can choose to see everything that comes up in our lives as an <i><b><span style="color: #0b5394;">opportunity</span></b></i> to forgive. The more we forgive, the more we purify and grow on our pathway to love and peace. <br />
<br />Dragonfly Designs/Tahoe Dream Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09184404327295568162noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6054239777813581668.post-70848603136499396222014-07-31T16:08:00.001-07:002014-07-31T16:08:29.618-07:00What to do When You Find Yourself Judging<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-size: large;"><b><i>I bless you with the blessing of Christ." </i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><b><i>--Way of Mastery p. 34</i></b></span></div>
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These are words we can say when we find ourselves judging. And as we say them we can visualize the image of the event or person we've judged gently dissolving into white light until there is no trace left of it. </div>
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Then we can turn all thoughts and memories of the event or person over to Spirit. Our work is now done. If, at some point in the future, there is anything more we need to do or say or think about, Spirit will let us know. Until then, we are free to enjoy the peace that forgiveness brings.</div>
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